What to Do If Your Spouse Won’t Sign the Divorce Papers

by Abigail Richards

Divorce can be emotionally challenging, and when a spouse refuses to sign the papers, it can feel like an added roadblock. At Richards Family Law, we understand how frustrating this situation can be, but rest assured—your divorce doesn’t have to come to a standstill. In most cases, you can still proceed with the divorce, even if your spouse refuses to cooperate.

Here’s what you need to know if your spouse won’t sign the divorce papers.

Step 1: Understand Michigan’s No-Fault Divorce Laws

Michigan is a no-fault divorce state, which means you don’t need your spouse’s agreement to get a divorce. As long as you can prove that the marriage has broken down to the point that it cannot be repaired, the court can grant the divorce without your spouse’s signature.

Step 2: File for Divorce

The process starts when you file a complaint for divorce in the county where you or your spouse resides. Once filed, your spouse must be officially served with the divorce papers.

  • If your spouse refuses to accept the papers, they can be served by:

    • Personal Service: Delivered by a third party.

    • Certified Mail: With a return receipt.

    • Alternative Methods: If your spouse is actively avoiding service, the court may allow methods like publication or posting.

Step 3: Responding to Non-Participation

If your spouse refuses to sign the papers or respond after being served, the court can move forward with the divorce:

  1. Default Divorce:

    • If your spouse does not respond within the required timeframe (usually 21-28 days, depending on how they were served), you can request a default judgment.

    • The court may grant the divorce based on the terms you proposed in your initial filing, provided they are reasonable and comply with Michigan law.

  2. Contested Divorce:

    • If your spouse actively fights the divorce but still refuses to sign, the court will hold hearings to resolve disputes over property, custody, and other issues. The judge’s decision will finalize the divorce, even without your spouse’s signature.

Step 4: Maintain Documentation and Patience

In cases where your spouse is uncooperative, it’s essential to:

  • Keep Records: Document all attempts to communicate with your spouse and serve the papers.

  • Stay Patient: While a contested or default divorce may take longer, the legal process is designed to ensure fairness.

Step 5: Work with an Experienced Divorce Attorney

Navigating a divorce with an uncooperative spouse can be complex, but you don’t have to face it alone. An experienced family law attorney can:

  • Help you file the necessary paperwork correctly.

  • Advise you on strategies to address your spouse’s refusal to cooperate.

  • Represent your interests in court to secure a fair outcome.

At Richards Family Law, we’ve helped many clients overcome the challenges of divorcing an uncooperative spouse, and we’re here to guide you through every step of the process.

What Not to Do

  • Don’t Delay: Waiting too long to take legal action can complicate your case.

  • Don’t Retaliate: Responding to your spouse’s refusal with hostility can hurt your case. Stay calm and focus on resolving the legal issues.

Take Action Today

If your spouse won’t sign the divorce papers, don’t let it stop you from moving forward. Contact Richards Family Law today to schedule a consultation. We’ll help you understand your options and develop a strategy to achieve the best possible outcome.

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